Make sure I see Mom once a month (and get a meal with her).
Do this for one year (I'm not sure if this will make me feel better or crazier?).
I've really seen Mom more this past year and even had times when I've been near her house and met her for a meal or just to say "hi". Actually this past year I bet we've averaged a twice a month (I didn't actually keep a checklist on this item).